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How to Style: Shirline Romph

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Shirline Romph is a busy mother who takes care of her daughter, Margaret, who was severely injured in a car accident seven years ago. Only 5 years old at the time, Margaret experienced severe spinal cord injuries and lives with Quadriplegia and taking care of her is a full time job for Romph.

In order to help pay for her daughter’s medical expenses, the family had held fundraisers throughout the year, including an annual charity golf tournament. In need of a new look for summer, Shirline was treated to a makeover, with hair and makeup done at Catherine Crum and wore a colorful outfit from Calena’s.

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Hair – Stylist Clare enhanced Shirline’s dark brown hair with honey colored Aveda highlights as well as a vibrant red that was painted in. Before blow drying Shirline’s hair, Aveda’s Smooth Infusion Style Prep and retexturizing gel was run through the hair. Using a large, round brush, Clare blow-dried and curled her hair with a large barrel iron away from the face in large sections to create ultimate volume and bounce. Anti Humectant was used to create shine and repel humidity and hair was finished with Aveda Air Control Hair Spray for light hold with movement.

Makeup – bareMinerals bareSkin and ready foundations were layered for an airbrushed look while bareMinerals bronzer gave definition. bareMinerals brown brow liner was used to define brows and The Truth eye color palette along with Lasting brown liner were used to make Shirline’s eyes pop. The look was completed with Lash Domination Mascara and a splash of Aveda lipstick.

Clothing – Sherline is wearing a trendy orange and turquoise Multiples layered top. Notice the blend of colors in the print of the top along with two textures of fabric. She is wearing summer white Multiples pants. Her accessories include a double strand beaded necklace and earrings with a matching fashion ring. Her turquoise fringe bag completes the ensemble.

Shirline’s daughter, Margaret joined her mother for her makeover. Catherine surprised Margaret with adding purple streaks to her hair which she had been wanting ever since she saw the Disney channel movie, ‘Descendants’.

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HER Picks — Father’s Day

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Don’t forget Father’s Day! Here are some of our favorite picks for every kind of dad.

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With this ring…

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Proposing, popping the big question, is usually a momentous occasion. Some guys spend months planning their proposal.

Not Kyle Loethen.

While shopping for an engagement ring at Helzberg Diamonds in Kansas City earlier this year, the company’s staff made him a proposal—if he chose a ring and asked his girlfriend to marry him in 48 hours, the ring would be on them.

Already comfortable with being on camera from his days modeling and acting in Los Angeles, he agreed.

“I still audition for commercials mostly in Kansas City and St. Louis, and I saw a Facebook post from this production company that Helzberg Diamonds was looking for guys about to propose,” he said. “The company was going to help educate the guys on how to purchase a ring, and we would be paid, so I decided to go and hoped I might get a good deal on the ring.”

He got a lot more than he bargained for, and the next day was a nerve-wracking whirlwind of emotions and activity, all planned by Helzberg staff and all captured by a video crew.

Every moment of his time­—from picking out the ring, to picking out a new suit, receiving a haircut and a shave—was video taped. After convincing his then girlfriend, Madison Burke, that they had been chosen to appear in a commercial, she agreed to drive to Kansas City. After she was treated to hair and makeup and donning a black dress with rhinestones, soon the big moment arrived. Standing on the candle-lit stage at the Kauffman Performing Arts Center, Loethen got down on bended knee and proposed.

“I think most girls dream about the day they will be proposed to. I know I certainly did. Kyle’s proposal was everything I dreamed about and more. One of the things that was so special about our engagement was his sweet proposal speech,” she said.

“From the moment our eyes first met, my heart felt something for you.
We started off as friends, but as I got to know you, my heart began to melt for you.
On our first official date, as we walked around the Governor’s Garden, I knew
there was something special about this relationship.
You’re everything I was ever looking for and my heart keeps falling more and more in love with you each and every single day.
I want to spend the rest of our lives together, and I don’t want to wait any longer…
Madison, will you marry me?”

Kyle proposing to Madison at the Kauffman Performing Arts Center in Kansas City.

Their experiences can be found on Madison’s blog, www.MadisonLoethen.com, and on a video running on Helzberg Diamonds’ website, www.helzberg.com/category/marketing/wepropose.do.

The couple also appeared on several news programs in Kansas City and in her hometown of St. Louis, including Fox 2 News, where Burke had interned. She graduated from Lindenwood University with a bachelors in public relations and broadcast journalism and then moved to Mid-Missouri where she has lived for the past three years.

Born and raised in Jefferson City, Loethen’s father, David, is the co-owner of AQI, a coin-operated amusement business, and his mother, Diana works for ECI Software Solutions, formerly OMD. After graduating from Helias Catholic High School, Loethen headed west and attended Loyola Marymount University in Los Angeles where he received a bachelors degree in business administration with an emphasis in marketing. After that he spent time modeling, acting and producing video content. His younger brother, Chad, an event producer and real estate agent, and younger sister, Carissa, who is on-air on E! Online, both still live in Los Angeles.

“I held many jobs in front of and behind the camera and in the corporate world at studios such as MTV, Fox and HBO,” he said.

After spending more than 10 years in Los Angeles, he decided to come home to “get back to his Midwestern roots.”

“Time was passing by and I wanted to spend more time with my family,” he said. “There was also a shift in the entertainment industry from traditional media to digital media. I felt like I didn’t have to live in Los Angeles to continue work in that field.”

He met Burke when they both worked at KMIZ-TV, the ABC affiliate, in Columbia, Missouri. He was in 160316-HER_Engagement-005marketing and sales and she was a reporter.

“I walk in the Jefferson City bureau office and he smiled and flashed his dimples and I thought ‘what a cutie.’”

He remembers that moment, too.

“Our eyes locked as she walked by and I instantly had butterflies in my stomach. I thought she was beautiful,” he said. “We were both dating other people at the time and we got to know each other hanging out with co-workers. We were friends for an entire year.”

After meeting her, one of his friends, Jake Wadley, told him, “this was the girl he would marry.”

“He became my best friend and that’s when I knew,” Burke said.

Loethen finally decided to ask her out when she put in her two weeks notice and decided to take on a new job.

He went on to work at Learfield and she at Newsy. Now he’s helping out at his father’s company and is also the president of the board for Capitol City Cinema, and she’s a multimedia marketing specialist at Boone Hospital, where she runs the hospital’s social media pages, produces videos, takes photographs, and writes for the hospital’s magazine.

Engagement ring from Helzberg Diamond’s Artiste by Scott Kay collection. It’s an almost two carat, semi-mount engagement ring with a cushion-cut loose diamond in the center.

The busy couple recently attended Carissa’s beach wedding in Key West Florida, where they couldn’t help but think about their own nuptials.

“My sister was giving all kind of advice, and she already had a good guest list put together for my family,” he said.

Following a long standing family tradition, since his younger sister was marrying before Loethen and his younger brother, both older un-married siblings had to dance through a hog trough, brought by their aunt.

They’re planning for a May 2017 wedding in Chesterfield, where her mother, Michelle, who heads communications for Westminster Christian Academy, and father, Tim, a computer programmer for Express Scripts, live. Their reception will be held at the Doubletree Hotel there.

They’re still working out the many details involved in a wedding, but Loethen can’t believe his good fortune.

“The timing though couldn’t have been more perfect. It was really a gift from God how everything all fell into place,”  he said.

Story by Shelley Gabert | photographs by Kris Wilson

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HER Community: May/June

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Paint the People 5K

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Patrons walk at Binder Lake covered in colored powder.
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SSM Health St. Mary’s Hospital Baby Bonanza

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Dietician Denise Coots gives a presentation on how to cook homemade baby food.
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Adam Sappinton’s Cookbook Signing at Capitol City Cork and Provisions

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Lauded chef, restauranteur and Jefferson City native Adam Sappington chats with guests and takes orders for personalized copies of his cookbook “Heartlandia: Heritage Recipes from The Country Cat”. Sappington currently resides in Portland, Oregon, with his wife Jackie where they serve as Executive Chef and Executive Pastry Chef at their acclaimed farm-to-table restaurant The Country Cat.
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First Annual Ladies Night Out Sponsored by News Tribune and HER Magazine

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Juanita Kunzler, left, greets Paula Evers, right, and Pam Rogers, center. Kunzler was Evers’ and Rogers’ grade school teacher at Our Lady of the Snows. They had not seen each other in 40 years.
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2016 Firley YMCA Black & White Party

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Auctioneer Bill Gratz spots a bidder during the live auction portion of the evening.
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Lincoln University’s 14th Annual President’s Gala Awards and Auction

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President Kevin D. Rome takes a moment to recognize the contributions of Lincoln University students in attendance and the significance financial support plays in student success.
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HER DIY: Dated to Dazzling

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Jill Bednar, owner of Southbank Gift Company, creates a dazzling zinc finish for a dated porcelain lamp.

No priming or sanding necessary! Prep your piece by cleaning it with Krud Kutter® and paper towels. After cleaning your piece, wipe down again with a clean wet rag to remove any residual cleaner or debris.

Now you are ready to paint! Using the small blue Annie Sloan brush, dip the tips into water, then into Graphite Chalk Paint® by Annie Sloan. Apply the thinned out Graphite until the smooth surface is thinly covered.

Let dry 24-48 hours to insure you have a thoroughly dry first coat. WITHOUT water, reapply a second or third coat as necessary, letting each coat dry in between.

Make a mixture of about 50/50 Louis Blue Chalk Paint® by Annie Sloan and water. Working quickly and in small sections, apply this very thin, watery coat of Louis Blue over the top of the Graphite.

IMMEDIATELY wipe off the Louis Blue with a rag or paper towel until the desired look is achieved. If you want less of the Louis Blue, you can dampen your rag/paper towel and wipe away more of the Louis Blue to expose more of the Graphite color. It should look like a “dusted” effect with the Louis Blue settled into the crevices and details of your piece. Let dry.


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Apply a thin coat of Annie Sloan Clear Wax® with a soft rag to protect your new piece and give it a subtle shine.

Project by Jill Bednar | Photography by Laura Bennett Smith

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HER Home: Hidden Treasures

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Laura and Larry Coen were searching for a ranch style home on one level and they found it in a neighborhood north of Memorial Park.

The house, built in 1956, hadn’t been updated in 30 to 40 years, so the couple modernized it with new paint on the interior and ceramic tile.

“The house had really good bones,” said Laura, a semi-retired administrative assistant and receptionist at First Assembly of God church.

Home-Mag--155-afterVacant for six months, they received a good deal from realtor Alan Mudd and spent two and a half months making improvements, moving in earlier this year in January.

With their eclectic style of antiques mixed with wood pieces and art from their travels to Africa, Brazil and Chile, they kept the built-in wood bookshelves and interlocking plank walls in the dining room.

When they removed the blue carpet in the large living room, they were pleasantly surprised to find original 1¼ inch oak planks of  hardwood.

“That was a real treat for us finding those original hardwood floors that had never been touched or sanded,” said Larry, a teacher at Lighthouse Academy and Columbia College.Home-Mag--144-after

They turned to Dennis Richter and David Groose of Custom Hardwoods to finish the floors in the living room, dining room and master bedroom.

They replaced the linoleum entryway, with ceramic tile in a mosaic pattern that carried through the dining room and the kitchen. They kept the original maple kitchen cabinets but added new hardware along with a High-Definition Formica® laminate countertop and backsplash to add a contemporary look to the kitchen.

The interior walls were painted in neutral colors—gray, creams and whites—that they chose all from Sherwin Williams in Jefferson City, including “Accessible Beige” in the living room and “Believable Buff” in the master bedroom. “Silent Smoke” was used in the hallway and two smaller bedrooms, and “Whiskers” in the kitchen.

Both Laura and Larry picked out the materials from Lowe’s and Menards in Jefferson City.

They turned to Scruggs Lumber’s Assistant Manager Jennifer Gardner to help them turn a screened-in porch into a three-season room by installing Quaker sliding vinyl replacement windows and a custom-sized insulated door. In addition, all the exposed wood was wrapped both inside and on the exterior.

Story by Shelley Gabert | Photography by Julie Smith

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How to Style: Nikki Carel

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A first grade teacher at Pioneer Trail Elementary School for the past five years, Nikki Carel recently won Jefferson City Public Schools “Teacher of the Year.” A veteran teacher who has taught for 14 years she’s also a former Missouri Teacher of the Year.

“I love teaching little kids because they are so excited about learning and keep me young and energized,” she said. “They love their teacher no matter what and they hug you.”

Carel grew up in Russellville and attended Russellvile High School before earning her bachelor’s degree in education from Lincoln University. She completed her master’s degree from William Wood University in elementary administration.
She has three children and her family loves to go camping and spend a lot of time outdoors. She will spend her award money on a family vacation in Florida.

A member of the Missouri State Teacher Association and is active in the American Cancer Society and St. Martin’s Parish.

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Hair – Nikki and her family are going on fabulous Florida vacation, so beach-ready hair seemed like the way to go.  Her base color was lightened to a beautiful blushed copper and golden highlights were added throughout.  Nikki’s naturally curly hair was shortened and layered to release the curl and to allow for more volume. For the polished look seen here, her hair was blown out straight with Aveda’s smooth in fusion style prep and naturally straight. As a bonus Nikki’s new cut and color will look different, but just as beautiful when styled naturally curly.

Makeup – Jennifer created this effortlessly natural look on Nikki with Aveda Makeup. First she applied concealer in Bamboo under the eyes, followed by mineral tinted moisture in Sandstone, and dual foundation in Twig to her entire face. She then added color to her cheeks with blush in Rose Blossom, and bronzer to her cheekbones in Amazonia, highlighting just above the cheeks with Illumination. For Nikki’s sultry bronze smoky eye Jennifer used Golden Jasper eye shadow trio. Her eyebrows were accentuated with eye definer in Sepia.  Mosscara in Black Forrest was applied to her lashes and color was added to her lips in Cerise. Jennifer completed her look with CND shellac nails in Tropix.

Clothing – Nikki is rockin’ the festival look in ethnic print palazzos and a long flowing tank top with breezy uber trendy crocheted weskit. This bohemian look is accentuated with  Native American themed necklace and stacked bracelets, all in silver and black. These and other great pieces can be discovered at Some Like It Haute.

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HER Picks: Porch Pizzazz!

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Spice up your porch or garden with these great finds!

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HER Profile: Margaret Schmitt of Pure Skin Care

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By the time Margaret Schmitt and her family moved to their current home in Barnett, between High Point and Versailles, she had already started her skincare business with only a few products. That was more than a year ago and since then she has created a complete line of organic skin care products, including lotion bars, salves, lip balms and face creams that are sold at several retail outlets in the area, including Goods Variety Store, GVS, in Versailles; Nature’s Source in Eldon; and Clovers Market in Columbia.

Her products are also on display and sold most Saturdays in Jefferson City at Lincoln University’s Farmers Market. That’s where we caught up with Schmitt and her two daughters, Maggie and Abi, who help with the labeling and packaging, and Ben, her husband of 24 years who works at Nutra Ag. They also have two sons Caleb and Levi; Schmitt has homeschooled all of her children.

As a baby, Levi had severe skin allergies and sensitivities so Schmitt has always been highly cognizant of the ingredients found in various products.

“I’ve always had to shop for lotions and other products with pure ingredients, a plain shae butter or jojoba,” Schmitt said. “I couldn’t use Johnson’s baby lotion on Levi because his skin would break out so bad. Everything I used had to be hypo allergenic.”

When Levi came home from Bible school with athletes foot, a contagious fungal infection marked by itching and burning on the feet and toes, she was determined to make a salve to treat him. After doing her homework and consulting her herbal reference books, Schmitt came up with a medicinal salve in two days and the symptoms of the athlete foot fungus disappeared quickly.

“Athletes foot is usually treated with steroid creams or even oral medication but I wanted a remedy that wasn’t so harsh and I didn’t want my son to live with the side effects,” she said. “The herbs I used are known to irradiate the fungus. By two weeks you couldn’t tell he had ever had a rash but FDA’s labeling regulations are strict so I couldn’t say he was cured,” she said.

She shared the salve with friends and members of her church family, who also experienced good results. One customer’s husband paid hundreds of dollars for a tiny tube of steroid cream but the athletes foot kept returning, until he used Schmitt’s salve, which also works on nail fungus. Another salve works on cuts and scrapes.

“I was so impressed with the results from the herbal salves and lip balms that I just kept going and I liked that it was a project we could do at home. I have learned so much just by listening to our customers.”

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HER LATE GRANDFATHER WAS AN HERBAL DOCTOR IN MEXICO. Schmitt was born in the state of Chihuahua, Mexico and her family moved to west Texas when she was 2 years old. “My grandfather was a chiropractor from the age of 18 in the early 1900s, traveling in a horse and buggy and making his own casts for his patients. When I was little, we would visit him and my dad got sick once, Montezuma’s Revenge (traveler’s diarrhea). My grandfather mixed up an herbal concoction for my dad to drink and in 30 minutes his fever broke. I’m always digging in my herbal books for a remedy and my mother has always said ‘that the apple didn’t fall far from the tree.’ I have many books from European doctors and I do my homework. I want to take an herbal class soon and add to my knowledge base. I do a lot of research as well as experiment with different recipes on my own family. My sister is an RN and I have different family members who have medical experience and that all helps.”

ALL OF HER PRODUCTS ARE CLEAN. “When you’re buying lotion at the store, it has a lot of water and alcohol in it and the customer is receiving very little of the good moisturizer, but my products are as pure and clean as possible.” Organic olive oil, beeswax and shae butter serve as a base for almost everything she does. “Olive oil is good for your skin and doesn’t clog your pores.” Ironically, five years ago after some testing Schmitt found out she is allergic to olive oil. “I can’t eat or use olive oil so I make the products I use on my skin with avocado oil. Most people can tolerate shae butter but some can’t and some also can’t tolerate camomile so I make special orders for people who are allergic to an ingredient.”

LEMONGRASS, LAVENDER AND GERANIUM ROSE are some of the scents in her lotion bars. She also makes an unscented bar. “I purchase all of the organic, herbal essential oils that I use to scent my products. I also use those made with a carbon dioxide process for more superior extraction methods and a thicker mixture. I put the oils herbs in a jar or container with the olive oil, sometimes for up to 6 or 8 weeks, or cook the mixture slowly over the stove.” For the lotion bars, she adds a thickener like a bees wax. Once everything has been infused she pours the mixture into molds or the packaging.

MEDICINAL HERBS INCLUDE COMFREY that helps reduce inflammation and helps clients with arthritis, while burdock is utilized into a salve to help with burns and wounds. The arnica flower is used in one of the herbal salves and a myrrh essential oil, (a healing antiseptic, antibacterial) that is wild crafted, is used in the plantain salve (for itch and rash or for poison ivy). Myrrh is a wild-crafted essential oil from the plants that are not farmed or sprayed with any kind of pesticide. Angela Beshore, the owner of Nature’s Source in Eldon has carried the Pure Skin Care line for six months and the herbal salves are very popular, as are the lotion bars.

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A FAMILY PROJECT, Schmidt does all the cooking in her home kitchen but her daughters help with labeling and shrink wrapping the products and attend the Farmer’s Market with her. She also experiments on her family. “When I was working on my face cream, I turned to my European herbal books and I used my mother as a guinea pig. She has age spots from living in Texas and being out in the sun and it definitely helped with those and it’s good for wrinkles, too. My husband likes to rub the Arnica salve on his sore muscles after a hard day at work.”

MOST OF HER PRODUCTS DO DOUBLE DUTY. The lip balm helps prevent cold sores as well as heals them. For one young girl with braces, the lip balm treated a rash around her mouth. The lotion bar works as a moisturizer for dry hands and cracked heels. Her bug bite salve evolved into a stick. “No one wants greasy hands when they’re hiking so the bug bite stick is great to rub on a mosquito bite. I’m also working on a bigger and wider bug off stick.” The foot salve works on nail fungus, too.

SHE WILL EXPAND HER MARKETING EFFORTS. All of her product labeling, printed by BW Graphics in Versailles, features her email address so customers can communicate with her. She makes her products in a larger size for one customer in New Mexico. “I want to make a bigger sign for our table at Lincoln University’s Farmer’s Market.” Going forward, she will expand her baby products line. “It’s important that we keep our prices reasonable so they’re available to as many people as possible. I’m always so excited when it works, just realizing that a lot of people can be helped with our products.”

For product information or ordering, contact Margaret at pureskincare4you@gmail.com.

by Shelley Gabert | photos by Julie Smith

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The Course of Women’s Golf

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It’s the second Monday evening of the women’s golf clinic at Turkey Creek Golf Center and owner Danny Baumgartner and Connor McHenry, a former State Amateur, are demonstrating the art of chipping.

“The key is to let the club do the work,” said Baumgartner, discussing the use of the pitching wedge, 7 iron or sand wedge to improve their short game.

“Did he say sandwich?” asks Sherrie Koechling Burnett.

“No, sand wedge,” said her friend, Maridee Edwards.

This is the 16th year Turkey Creek has held the popular ladies’ golf clinics, which are held four evenings (per clinic) during the months of May, June, August and September at a cost of $65. Usually Rob Wilson, the assistant pro at Old Kinderhook at the Lake of the Ozarks, is instructing the ladies.

“They love his British accent,” Baumgartner said.

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Turkey Creek Golf Center owner Danny Baumgartner and Connor McHenry instructing Christie Baumhoer, Kim Morff, Sherrie Koechling, Marilue Hemmel, Maridee Edwards, Janet Miller and Teresa Cook

Women come to the clinic with varying experience levels. Edwards, an attorney, and Koechling Burnett, an accountant, are taking up golf for the first time while Kim Morff from Russellville has played before.

“I like to play golf because it’s a great stress reliever and it’s also fun,” said Morff, who works in the banking business.

Her chips are consistently close to the hole and her swing with the driver connects too.

THWACK! The glorious sound of a well-struck shot, one that takes flight and goes the distance. Even if it’s only one out of 20 attempted swings for many golfers, it’s that sound, that contact that keeps them coming back for more of the confounding but often rewarding game.

Golf is hard, frustrating and down right exasperating, especially for those competitive types, who can throw curses or clubs around in equal measure. Not me, you say. Play a round and you may be surprised to find yourself wrapping a club around the nearest tree. Even the pro’s game can leave them on the back nine — did anyone see top golfer Jordan Spieth’s blow out at the Master’s this year?

Watching pro golf on television, the sport seems stuffy, stuck-up and time consuming. Playing 18 holes eats up four hours and there’s costs to join a country club or play a course and for the equipment and clothes. Being out on the golf course though is fun and down-to-earth, literally. Wheeling around in a cart, socializing with friends in the outdoors surrounded by lush greens, trees and water is an escape into another world. Even a high score can’t diminish those pluses.

Although it’s been more than 10 years since Tiger Woods won the Masters with that amazing clutch chip to birdie and cinch the victory, he singlehandedly galvanized the game and made it athletic and sexy for the young. According to CBS News in 2005, the year of the “Tiger”, there were an estimated 30 million players, an all-time high. Today Wood’s golf has declined and the sport. In 2015, the numbers were down to a bit more than 24 million, with just five percent of golfers under the age of 30.

The No. 1 golfer on the LPGA, Lydia Ko, is 19, and the No. 2, Brooke Henderson, who won the KPMG Women’s PGA Championship, is 18. Six of the top 20 players in the world are under the age of 21, with only four in their 30s.

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Kim Morff practicing at the Women’s Clinic at Turkey Creek.

“We do see a lot of young ladies under 30, but our largest segment is retired women,” said Chris Nelson, the pro at Meadow Lake Acres Country Club in New Bloomfield. “We encourage all ages of women and men to take up golf. It’s a great sport to pick up and one that you can play for a lifetime and also spend time with family and friends.”

Meadow Lake Acres hosts a Nine and Dine event for pairs that runs through September, and there are also guest nights where members can bring friends. Between the months of May and into October, the Jefferson City Country Club, JCCC, hosts several events for women – Ladies Day, where they can play as individuals or in team scrambles and Nine on Wine, where nine holes of golf is followed by wine and dinner.

“Women are still the minority on the golf course but more women continue to play,” said Kevin Dunn, the head pro at JCCC for the past four years who teaches a ladies clinic on Wednesday mornings and has offered individual instruction to beginners as well as more experienced players.

“The way for most PGA Pros to grow rounds at their course is to make golf a family activity and create more leagues for women,” he said.

Cathy Carter, the head women’s golf coach at Lincoln University for the past five years, participates in the women’s events and plays in local tournaments. She practically grew up at JCCC, but didn’t take up golf until the age of 17.

“I was a lifeguard and I played tennis but my parents and my brother played golf,” she said. “Mom would take me out and let me play with her and her friends and they were encouraging. When I hit a good shot, the challenge to do it again motivated me to keep playing.”

During her senior year at Jefferson City High School, she played tennis and volleyball and was a walk-on for the women’s tennis team at the University of Missouri-Columbia, where she also played Intramural tennis and other sports. She went on to receive her bachelors of science degree in Dental Hygiene/Hygienist from the University of Missouri-Kansas City School of Dentistry, and then worked for her father, Harold, a dentist in Jefferson City.

She continued to play golf and in 1982, she and her then boyfriend were set to attend the Golf Digest School in Boca Raton, Florida. When they broke up, she decided to take her mother. Carter and her mother Paula, went and received instruction by some big names, including Davis Love Jr., father of pro golfer Davis Love III, and Peter Kostis, then one of the head instructors who has served as a golf analyst for CBS for two decades. For three years, Carter lived in Palm Beach Gardens, Florida and worked at the Pro Shop at the PGA National Golf Club, where she also interacted with many golf pros like Jack Grout who coached the legendary Jack Nicklaus.

“It was awesome. I learned a lot about my golf swing and just being around people that were well known in golf, learning from the best was great,” she said.

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Hanna Berendzen, currently on the Lincoln Women’s Golf team, Coach Cathy Carter and Kaitlyn Schwartz on the course at the Jefferson City Country Club.

While playing in a Women’s Western tournament, she met Ellen Port, one of the leading women golfers in the St. Louis area. She became only the second woman to capture both the Mid-Amateur and the USGA Senior Women’s Amateur Championship, and is a four-time U.S. women’s Mid-Amateur Champion. She represented the U.S. in two U.S. Curtis Cups and coached the U.S. team in the 2014 competition. The Senior Player of the Year through the Missouri Women’s Golf Association, she’s now the head women’s golf coach at Washington University in St. Louis.

Like Port, Carter is focused on teaching the next generation. While fitness has become more important and there have been major changes in equipment, the fundamentals of golf haven’t changed that much.

“I enjoy practice, watching them hit a ball, helping them get out of trouble and understanding their thinking process,” Carter said. “I like to see young women that really love the game of golf, that like to play in competitions.”

That describes Kaitlyn Schwartz, one of the top golfers that’s ever played for Carter.

“Kaitlyn is a good ball striker and she would ask my advice and trusted that I knew how to help her and she would make the adjustments,” said Carter.

Like many golfers, Schwartz grew up playing with her father.

“I’ve been playing since I was 7,” said Schwartz. “My dad bought my sisters and I all a first set of clubs but I was the only one to go on to play golf. I was always athletic and competitive.”

A graduate of Fatima High School, she played basketball, softball and golf. Since there was no women’s golf team, she played on the boy’s team.

“I played from the boy’s tees and some girls would see that as intimidating but it helped me because at college you’re playing more yardage,” she said.

During her summers she played softball on the weekends and golf during the week and was a member of Gateway PGA Junior Golf Program. Although offered a softball scholarship, golf offered more college money.

“Being a student and an athlete is hectic and it’s a must to keep your grades up for your scholarship. Most players want to get a good education but don’t want to put in the time necessary to be really good and definitely not to try and go pro,” she said.

“I’d be lying if I said playing professionally wasn’t a dream of mine, but the reality is that there are other factors in my life,” Schwartz said. “My father became ill a few years ago and I’m the only daughter who lives close by and I want to help out. I’ve got roots here.”

Schwartz, who earned her associate degree in drafting, two bachelor’s degrees in civil engineering technology and mathematics, and her masters in applied math, has no regrets.

“I love golf and I’ve been around it all my life. I can tell you almost every course I have ever played and still picture a particular hole and how I played it,” she said.

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Cathy Carter and Hanna Berendzen

“Golf is hole by hole and it’s only you. It’s a good way to see how you are as an individual in handling pressure and success or failure,” she said.“It can be relaxing but it’s also unpredictable and stressful. You can have a good day and the next day is a complete 180 and that can be stressful.”

Even though she’s been playing golf for 35 years, Carter has watched her once single-digit handicap fall and her game decline.

“Yesterday my mom and I played together and I scored 46 on the first nine but then all of a sudden something clicked and I scored a lot better on the second nine,” Carter said. “If you hit a couple of bad shots it’s easy to get that negative thing going but you have to learn how to not beat yourself up, to make the best swing and trust in your ability. A lot of success in golf is definitely between the ears.”

Like most long-time golfers, she knows that golf is a fickle game but no matter how many bogies or birdies, the romance is still blooming and she hopes to be like her parents who still play golf in their mid 80s.

While Carter is trying to pass on her love and appreciation for the game, she has found recruitment challenging. “I find coaching very rewarding but I’ve found golf scholarships harder to give out; it’s definitely the most under utilized sport,” she said.

The LPGA and Missouri Women’s Golf Association, MWGA, and other busineses are reaching out to young women to offer clinics and other opportunities for them to take up the game.

During the KPMG sponsored golf tournament at Sahalee Country Club, a Women’s Leadership Summit was held along with a Future Leader’s Program, featuring speakers like Condoleeza Rice, the former U.S. Secretary of State, and Annika Sorenstam, one of the most successful pro women’s golfers in history. The goal was to empower the future generation of women golfers to achieve success in the sport and in their careers.

“A lot of girls want to concentrate on their studies and get their education and I understand that but playing golf is a skill that can benefit them their entire life, both socially and in business,” Carter said.

“I’ve gotten to play golf in some of the most beautiful places and met some amazing people,” she said. “Golf is such a big part of me and who I am. I definitely identify with being a golfer.”

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by Shelley Gabert | photos by Kris Wilson and Julie Smith

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HER Community: July/August

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Cole County Historical Society Fashion Show and Luncheon

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Donna Kay Nicklas stops at a table to show off the Saffees outfit she’s modeling.
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Cork, Fork and Brews at Capital Plaza Hotel

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People gather at Cork, Fork and Brews held at the Capital Plaza Hotel.
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Magnolia Home Open House at JC Mattress Factory and Furniture Showrooms

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Sherri and Lee Wilbers attend the launch of Magnolia Home collection by Chip and Joanna Gaines, the stars of HGTV’s “Fixer Upper”. Sherri is the owner of KOPI and Lee is a partner of Wall Street Group.
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ColorVibe 5k run

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Carrie Stedner crosses the finish line.
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Zonta Yellow Rose Luncheon

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Ruthi Sturdevant, right, presents Nancy Thompson with a single yellow rose and certificate of recognition during the annual Yellow Rose Luncheon.
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HER DIY: Fabulous Fabric Makeover

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Jill Bednar, owner of Southbank Gift Company, transforms a fabric bench with Chalk Paint® decorative paint by Annie Sloan. Don’t buy new! Just re-do, and tell your own story.

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Spritz fabric section with water to saturate so the paint brushes on smoothly. (Working in sections will assure your fabric doesn’t have time to dry before you paint.)

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Choose your Chalk Paint® by Annie Sloan color, put it in a small container or glass, and dilute with water using approximately a 50/50 ratio (Our project color choice was Old White). Coat the dampened fabric with the diluted paint/water combination. One coat is fine. This coat is meant to establish a good base coat to build on – not to cover.  Let this coat dry for 24 hours.

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When completely dry, the fabric will feel hard and “crunchy.” This will make your consequent coats easy to build upon.  Now, start painting 2nd coat of your Chalk Paint® by Annie Sloan full strength and not diluted. Let each coat dry in between
applications. Apply as many coats as necessary to cover the color/pattern of your old upholstery.

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When satisfied with the coverage and when the paint is completely dry, lightly sand with the “fine” Annie Sloan Sanding Pad or 320/400 grit sanding paper.  This will make your painted upholstery surface feel smoother and silkier.

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Apply a light, thin coat of Clear Chalk Paint® Wax. Wipe away any excess. Buff with a clean cloth to get a smooth dry shine.

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You may further embellish your piece by:

Tape off a stripe pattern and paint in using an Annie Sloan Stencil Brush and Chalk Paint®. (We used Aubusson Blue.)

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Apply the Clear Wax over the striped area.

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We also chose to refresh the legs of our piece with a simple coat of Black Chalk Paint® Wax and buffed to a soft shine.

Project by Jill Bednar | photography by Bennett Smith Photography

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HER Home: Modern Flip

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The former enclosed porch was reopened and a stamped concrete floor was added. A custom blend from Sherwin Williams was used on the exterior.

Flipping homes is a popular pastime right now. Consider HGTV’s ratings hit “Fixer Uppers,” a renovation show featuring Chip and Joanna Gaines of Waco, Texas.

Here in Jefferson City, Kim Prenger, a real estate agent at RE/MAX, her husband, Mark, a Network Architect at WIPRO,  and Brett Shipley, also a realtor at RE/MAX, formed MKB Properties, LLC and their first project was a home on Moreland Ave., off of Moreau Drive.

MKP purchased the 1930, two-story home in June 15, 2015, and their renovation retained the hardwood floors and other charms and character of the older home while adding a completely modern kitchen and opening the front porch. Their attention to detail throughout the close to 2,000 square foot home is evident in the materials chosen and the quality of work done by local craftsmen.

Kyle Atkinson, an attorney, and his wife, Heather, who lived in St. Louis bought the home in September and moved in last November. Formerly with the general counsel’s office Kyle is now with the Department of Corrections and Heather, a former academic, is now a stay-at-home mom.

“We loved that we had two living spaces, the formal living room and the family room and that we didn’t have to do any updating in the kitchen,” said Heather.

Instead of two smaller rooms, a wall was knocked out to create the large kitchen, and new white Shaker cabinets were installed along with a 3D Formica® countertops to mimic Carrera marble and charcoal gray porcelain tiles.

With a new baby and a toddler, the convenience of having a half bathroom on the first floor in the dining room was also a huge benefit and the renovation adds value to the house. The main bath on the second floor featured new tiled flooring, shower and a new vanity.

The majority of the interior was painted with Revere Pewter from Benjamin Moore, which Lowe’s matched. Craftsman doors were purchased to match the existing craftsman woodwork inside and a new front door stands out on the porch.

One major transformation of the house was the creation of the front porch. Originally completely enclosed it was reopened with a new front door and exterior concrete stamp porch. A new craftsman door was also used on the side porch, which was rotted and rebuilt.

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Vender List:

• Alternative Hardwood Flooring – Jim Shivers
• Gerald Holzer Cabinetry
• Hometown Lumber in Linn (doors, including front door)
• Dave Esken – plastering
• D&S Roofing – renovated front porch
• Speedy Landscaping

Story by Shelley Gabert | Photography by Julie Smith

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HER Picks: Show Your Team Spirit!

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Get ready to cheer on your favorite team with signs, books, wall decor and more!

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HER Profile: Shop Girl

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With a background in journalism and communications, Peggy Davis is entering a new chapter in her life as the owner of Shop Girl, a new store at 106 Boonville Road, in the lower level of Hair Expressions building off West Main Street. The store is an eclectic mix of vintage, new and antique furniture, antiques and other products from local artists and craftspeople.

After retiring last December from 23 years working in communications for the state, including in the office of then Attorney General Jay Nixon and for the office of insurance and professional registration, she planned to write a book, the dream for most writers. Instead, she opened up her store in June.

A visit to Shop Girl is a must but make sure and allow some time to peruse her plentiful wares as new items are added every day. The floors and walls are full of her “finds” and she’s confident they will also appeal to her customers who want to add just the right piece or ambiance to their own spaces. In addition to the store, they offer workshops and classes.

Shop Girl is a welcomed addition to the Jefferson City boutique landscape.

A SMALL TOWN GIRL, she grew up in Shelbina, Missouri with the values of family and hard work. “My mother grew up during the Great Depression and never wasted anything. We grew or raised almost everything we ate and we made things all the time. If we needed something we made it. I had three siblings close in age and I remember making tree houses and dollhouses. We were always crafty. My mom and dad encouraged that and we had a strong work ethic. I held jobs at a nursing home and my sister and I painted the exterior and interior of the building. I have always worked and even now when I am retired I still enjoy working.”

Lucy Engelbrecht of Tipton and Donna Potts of St. Charles carve letters out of Reader’s Digest magazines and sell them at Shop Girl

A JACK OF MANY TRADES. She worked as a writer, photographer and graphic designer at a small daily newspaper, the Macon Chronicle Herald. “When you work at a small newspaper people know you and tell you what they think, they held you accountable.” Davis received her masters degree in journalism from the University of Missouri School of Journalism. Then she moved to Shreveport, Louisiana to work for a newspaper there owned by Gannet. The editor was gone one day and she was on her own to get the newspaper out and Ronald Reagan was shot that day by John Hinckley (March 30, 1981 at 1:24 p.m. CST).

SHE INTERNED AT THE CAPITOL working with a legislator during her senior year of college at Truman University, where she graduated with minors in mass communications and business administration. “When I later moved to Jefferson City it felt like returning home. I have lived in the same house on Hazelton near the store and I love this neighborhood. I thought I would be here two or three years but I liked it so I stayed.”

A CELEBRATION OF OLD SCHOOL. She co-owned a futon store in Kirkwood with her sister. “I used to cold call people from the phone directory to develop the business there. For Shop Girl I didn’t study and look at demographics, I just went with my gut feeling that it would be successful. I did it the old-fashioned way. I live just down the street and I love the neighborhood, so when I saw the space was available month after month I bought it and took possession of it in April. I did some remodeling. Michelle Distler was a godsend in helping me get the store up and running.”

“I REALLY DON’T LIKE TO SHOP…but I opened a shop. I am a communicator and when I was setting up the store I asked myself, ‘what do I want to get out of it?’ What do I want other people to get out of it?’ People walk in here and it’s really an experience rather than just to buy something. Our mission isn’t only to sell stuff. We like to know the history of the items we buy and many items have a story. We bought a shovel from someone who told us about its owner, Ben, who had passed away, and he loved growing tomatoes. So when someone else bought that shovel we told them about Ben.”

Shop Girl sells antiques and hosts different workshops throughout the year

THE QUEEN OF REPURPOSING AND REUSING, her finds come from garage sales, auctions and buying items from individuals. “I usually have big garage sales several times a year so the store is a homage to what we used to do. Only here when we sell something, we have to go find other things to replace them. Finding the items is the fun part of it. Almost 99 percent of what we sell in the store is made in America and we are buying from local individuals and people who make things so the money stays in the community.”

Shop Girl sells Sammysoap made by a woman in Kirkwood and Pat Barlett sells her photography books and postcards through her company B unique. They sell Mudpaint too for all the DIYers. We hold painting and creative journaling in the store and Michelle is going to give Mudpainting classes too, with other artists leading painting and creative journaling in the store.”

PEOPLE NEED TO WORK WITH THEIR HANDS. “It’s good to paint, dig in the soil and work with your hands. It takes your mind off things and puts you in a better place. It’s free therapy. If you’re having a stressful day, it’s good to create something and the workshops are fun and rewarding. We’ve lost a piece of ourselves by not working with our hands more. People want to learn something new like making jewelry or growing things.”

A MASTER GARDENER, she’s also been involved in the Bittersweet Garden Club. “If I could do anything else it would be a landscape architect. Right now the front of my store is my front yard. My creative endeavor is the store.”

HER GRAND OPENING WAS CALLED HAZEL DAY, after her mother. “I had some great mentors and teachers but my mother was the original great teacher. My mom moved in with me 14 years ago then had a stroke and ended up in a wheelchair, so my sister and I took care of her.” She passed last year.

BEING AN ENTREPRENEUR IS SECOND NATURE. She once bought and sold houses and handled the business, budget and marketing. “I am very detailed oriented. I am at the store every day. I enjoy seeing our regular customers who check in often to see what we’ve added since their last visit. We take photos of our customers with their purchases and we put that on Facebook and that has worked well for us. Most people comment about liking the atmosphere in the store and they’re not always looking at their phones. Sometimes they do use their phone to take a photo of something in the store and that’s what I had envisioned happening. I don’t think there is a store like us in Jefferson City and being in the shop seems to be uplifting for people. When people leave the store they seem to be in a better place.”

Story by Shelley Gabert | Photography by Annie Rice

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Angiepalooza: Celebrating and Remembering

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The annual Jefferson City street party known as Angiepalooza is a time for remembering those who have lost their battle with cancer, but for Reiana Barton the event holds a much deeper meaning. It’s named after her mother, Angie Capps-Tinnin, who was diagnosed with stage four colon cancer October 31, 2011 and passed away a year later. Searching for a way to honor her mother, her family and friends came up with this event. The first Angiepalooza was held in 2013 at the Jefferson City Jaycees Fair Grounds and then moved to downtown the following year. The benefit concert featuring several local bands supports the Angie Capps-Tinnin, ACT, project.

We sat down with Reiana to talk more about the event and her experience losing her mother.

HER: How was Angiepalooza founded?

Reiana Barton: This event was a collaborative effort between my step-father Tim Tinnin and my mother’s best friend, Lindsay Williams. They wanted to create an event that would memorialize my mom while also helping so many others who were suffering as our family had. They wanted a way to remember and honor those who have lost their battle with cancer while still creating a fun event that brings people together.

Because I was in high school when Angiepalooza first began, I was more of a supporter but as I have gotten older, I have taken on larger roles in helping with this event and I am currently the Event Staff Coordinator where I lead all volunteers who work the event.

HER:  What is the Angie Capps-Tinnin Project?

It’s the non-profit side of Angiepalooza. All of the proceeds of the evening go towards funding small projects at local cancer hospitals and eventually will help families struggling with cancer directly.

HER: What was going through your mind when you were told your mother had been diagnosed with cancer?

The initial feeling I got when we found out was mainly fear. She had been diagnosed on Halloween of 2011 and I was only 16 years old at the time. When you are told that the person closest to you has cancer your entire world flips upside down.
As my mom saw more doctors, we found out she was only being given 2-5 years to live. Fear immediately  turned into anger because I felt it wasn’t fair that this was happening to my family, to my mom. Angie was a hardworking, caring individual who loved her job and her children and could make anyone around her smile and laugh. I couldn’t believe that something like this would happen to a woman who, in my eyes, could do absolutely no wrong.
As time passed, my mom began chemotherapy but unfortunately things were not getting better. Being the oldest child, I had the feeling that I needed to be the one to take care of my family. Knowing that my mom wasn’t going to make it made me much more protective of my siblings and it made me grow up much faster than if she hadn’t died when I was still young. Ultimately my mother’s passing made me into who I am today but going through an experience like that as a teenager is definitely something that takes a toll on you.

HER:  What are some of your favorite memories of your mom?

My mom had a very loud and fun-loving personality. We were always extremely close and she was really the type of person I wanted to grow up into. One of my favorite memories of my mom was anytime we were in the car together we’d play “Name That Tune” and almost every car ride was a karaoke session. Singing “Total Eclipse of the Heart” and “Don’t Stop Believing” at the top of our lungs will always be one of my favorite things we did together. Another memory that I always hold close was just the endless amount of advice and love that she gave myself and my siblings.

If there was one thing I could say about my mom, it was that she loved her children with all she had and I feel incredibly lucky that I am her daughter.

HER:  What do you hope people take away from this event?

I think the main thing that I want people to take away from Angiepalooza is that you can turn any bad situation into something good. Losing my mom to cancer has been one of the hardest things I have had to go through but by working with my family and Angiepalooza I am able to focus on turning our loss into something good rather than focusing on the negative.

Angie’s parents, husband and children. Back Row: Kaitlin Tinnin, Tim Tinnin, Jimmy Capps, Reiana Barton, Connor Day, Madison Day. Front Row: Jolie and Brian Taylor, Kathy Capps

The 5th annual Angiepalooza will be held on September 24, 2016 in downtown Jefferson City. For more information check out the event’s Facebook page.

Story by Shelby Patterson | Photos Submitted

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In the “old” days the Welcome Wagon hostess stopped by a new homeowner to officially welcome them to the neighborhood, but the Newcomers & Neighbors Club of Jefferson City is a lot more fun.

This group of women aren’t tied together by the geography of a specific neighborhood, but through a shared connection of exploring and giving back to their community.

The group has walked at the Runge Nature Center and on the Katy Trail, made wind chimes at Village Art Studio and taken in a baseball game in St. Louis and a play at the Lyceum Theatre in Arrow Rock. They’ve also raised money for the Community Breast Care Project and The Healing House and New Beginnings, the first program for women recovering from substance abuse in Jefferson City.

Linda and Bruce Phelps, host of the Munch & Mingle event

“We introduce members to area businesses, volunteer opportunities and we also have educational events, too,” said Linda Phelps, who moved here five years ago from St. Louis when her husband, Bruce, took a job at Hawthorn Bank. “We do so much all rolled into this one group.”
Phelps had volunteered at the Ronald McDonald House in St. Louis, and wanted to be involved in Jefferson City, so she headed to Capital Region Medical Center.

“I met other volunteers like Roni Flood who moved here from San Diego, and she led me to the Newcomer’s group,” Phelps said. “It can be scary to come to a new town and your husband goes off to work and you don’t know anyone. This has been a good support group for myself and our members. We’re very active.”

As the current president, Phelps is joined by Barbara Brennamen, vice president, Deb Mealy, treasurer, and Debbie Boyce, secretary, who  writes the email newsletter and keeps the other members informed of activities. Judy Krueger is in charge of the book club and Boyce and Brennamen organize many of the outings for the group. The member dues are $20 annually.

They meet almost every Tuesday for coffee and planning meetings where they determine upcoming activities and fundraising events. They raised $1,400 during last year’s Christmas auction, where members brought items such as yard art and baked goods. The money went to The Healing House and New Beginnings.

“Debbie asked me to speak to their group and they decided to partner with us and they have been so supportive and done a magnificent job,” said Heather Gieck, founder and executive director of The Healing House. “If we have a need I get ahold of Debbie and they always try to help.”

“They bought new cushions for our lawn furniture, an umbrella for our table and money donations too,” she said.

The members also bring meals two Mondays a month to the women living in the house, which Boyce, who works part time at Jo-Ann’s Fabrics and Crafts, coordinates.

“I love to be involved and this group has been a godsend,” said Boyce, who moved here from Southern California in October of 2013 with her husband, Dave, who retired as a lineman for Verizon Telephone.

“I was up to five feet in boxes and a neighbor told me about the group,” she said.

Since she became a member, the Newcomers and Neighbors Group has evolved and the women have taken on more activities, some that are held at night so the members who work outside the home can attend.

“We used to do a Christmas dinner and then something in the spring but we keep adding activities, like a Valentine’s Day dinner and Cinco De Mayo party,” Boyce said.“That’s become my thing and I’ve hosted it three times.”

The women often meet for salad dinners where everyone brings a topping for the lettuce and they play Mexican train, a game played with dominoes.

The first Friday of every month is the Munch & Mingle event in the evening, where more than a couple dozen members, their husbands and significant others meet for cocktails and conversation. Tonight the Phelps are hosting and their kitchen is packed with finger foods, tasty dips and sandwiches. The men have gotten to know each other and go fishing, golf or play poker.

Flood, a former nurse, moved here from San Diego and her husband, Dave is an orthopedic surgeon. Angie and Scott Fenwick, who is on the Bio Diesel Board, came two and a half years ago from New Orleans.

The members who have lived in Jefferson City longer expose the newcomers to different places in the area, including and the Boone Olive Oil Company in Columbia or Dunn Brothers Coffee. The group recently met at the new Jefferson Deli that opened on Truman Boulevard.

“Some of the women have never been to the places we go, so they learn all kinds of new things, places to go, organizations that need volunteers” Phelps said.

They’ve invited Officer Kevin Kempker to speak on self defense, learned about planting herbs at Busch’s Florist, toured the Missouri Supreme Court Building and in October they’ve planned an outing at Ha Ha Tonka.

“This is a busy and great group of women who all have something to offer,” said Brennamen, who moved to Jefferson City from Syracuse, New York when her husband got a job at Central Trust Bank.

“We’ve moved several times and I always ask my realtor about opportunities, she said. “I have learned to put myself out there.”
Several years ago, they changed their bylaws and added Neighbors to the name to encompass their changing membership.

“Several ladies retired from state jobs or were school teachers and even though they have lived here for most of their lives, now their life opened up and they had more time,” Phelps said.

Right now, they’re fundraising for The Pregnancy Help Center, which offers free pregnancy tests, ultrasounds, counseling and other services to women. The group toured the facility with Director Leslie Kerns and this month will hold a baby shower to donate items to the women served there. In the past, they’ve made colorful, whimsical pillow cases for the children in the area served by the ConKerr Cancer Project. They recently met at Rosell’s house to make 210 pairs of shoes for Sole Hope, a non profit founded to provide shoes for African children.

Barbara Brennamen making shoes for Sole Hope

“You always hear that it’s important to make a difference in one person’s life that that’s all it takes and it’s true. We don’t know what’s going to happen to the young people in African that will wear these shoes,” she said.

The club also handles projects for some of the women’s children and grandchildren, like Christa Roehl’s daughter, Catherine, who needed help for a project to help the Special Learning Center.

Many of the members also volunteer for the garden club and Habitat for Humanity and other organizations and many are active in their church.
“The Newcomer’s group has come a long way baby, and has shaped itself into a catch all for all that’s good about clubs, friends and neighbors.”

“We all get along really well and our circle of friends have resulted from this group,” said Boyce. “It has really been a lifesaver for me, everyone needs a place where they feel they belong,” she said.

Story by Shelley Gabert | Photography by Julie Smith & Kris Wilson

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HER Community: September/October

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Empty Bowls Hosted by Salvation Army Center of Hope

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Micah Roberts inspects the bowls looking for a favored one to take home.
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Divine Miss Destiny Pageant

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Pageant contestants ten-year-old A’Marriah Lee, left, and ten-year-old Sierra Young speak at the Miss Divine Destiny Pageant.
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Ms. Missouri Nursing Home Pageant

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Representing Life Care Center in Waynesville, Penelope Czerwinski, at left, was named runner up to Oak Tree Villas’ Dorothy Strader, who was named Ms. Nursing Home Missouri Queen.
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Men of the Club Sponsored by the Capitol City Boys and Girl’s Club

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KOMU 8 News’ Landon Burke announces the Capitol City Boys and Girl’s Club’s “Men of the Club” fundraiser. All proceeds benefited the organization.
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Boost BBQ

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Cindy Reeves, left, and Raonak Ekram serve BBQ to attendees at the 24th Annual Boost BBQ. Both Reeves and Ekram work at the Goldschmidt Cancer Center.
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Lincoln University Blue Tiger Fest

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Tryone Hooks plays bass drum in the Lincoln University Marching Musical Storm at Lincoln’s homecoming celebration.
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Picadilly in white

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Chris Bell, #13, and dozens of other bidders raise their boards high as the final auction item of the night during the Piccadilly in White fundraiser for the Downtown Jefferson City Association.
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Holiday Traditions

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Every family has their own rituals they follow during the holidays. Here are some fun traditions submitted by our readers.

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For Christmas every year my family wears ugly Christmas Sweaters to my mom’s house to open presents.  We usually have photo booth props and take our picture. – Andrea Brune, Substitue Teacher

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Each December, my family gets together to bake cookies. There are usually 40 or so of us that bake them and we make close to 4,000 cookies. It started with my mother and her sisters and we rotate each year between Jefferson City, Ashland, St. Louis and Springfield. Usually it’s just the girls that bake but the men have fun too with a wing cookoff.- Amber Gibler, United Way

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We learned about this while I was stationed in Germany in the USAF. Every year my wife hides a ceramic green pickle ornament that we acquired at a Christmas market in Germany, on the Christmas tree on Christmas eve.
After the kids open all their presents, they know that “Santa” left one more gift for the most observant, well behaved child. They all get to look around the tree but not touch. The first one to find it gets the “Pickle Gift. It’s loads of fun and teaches them to be observant and look with your eyes and not with your hands. – Greg Stephens, Elementary Reading Specialist Teacher

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Amber Arnold, owner of Arnold Photography, and her husband, Jeff, create memorable Christmas cards every year.
“We like to do something funny or a take  off of a movie or show or something in the news.” – Amber Arnold, Arnold Photography

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I make a gingerbread house every Christmas. Each year I try to make a different style/type. My monuments in sugar sometimes stay up until late February because I have a hard time getting rid of them! – Lori Bockting, High School Visual Arts and Gifted Class Teacher

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Our tradition starts with a day full of cookie baking over the weekend. Between us we put together dozens of treats to keep and share with friends, while some are sent overseas to our military. We meet one evening each year for our Christmas light excursion. We grab our cookies and hot chocolate to load into the trolleys. We spend about an hour enjoying all Jefferson City has to offer and end our trip with dinner and letting the kids run off the sugar! – Jana Millard, deVille Properties

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HER DIY: Seeing Spots

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Using Wood Icing® and Chalk Paint®, Jill Bednar, owner of Southbank Gift Company, creates a textured, three-dimensional look on an outdated coffee table.  Don’t buy new! Just re-do, and tell your own story.

Before/After

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No priming or sanding necessary. Prep your piece by cleaning it with Krud Kutter©. You may wipe down again with a clean damp cloth to remove any residual cleaner or debris.

Choose your stencil and position the stencil where you would like and tape down.

step2Spread Wood Icing® thinly over the stencil and then gently lift stencil up.

Let the Wood Icing® dry completely.  When dry, lightly sand over entire surface to take peaks or higher
edges off.

Paint over entire surface and your raised impression with the Chalk Paint® decorative paint color of your choice (we used Old Ochre).

When paint is dry, lay your stencil back over your raised design, matching exactly, and stencil your contrasting color on (we used French Linen & Graphite).  Lift stencil up and set aside.

When paint is dry, apply Chalk Paint® Wax. Buff the surface to smooth out wax and remove any excess.

Project by Jill Bednar | Photography by Laura Bennett Smith

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